Working with Tyler Mallett,
Sex & Intimacy Coach for Couples + Individuals
If something in your relationship to yourself or others feels off, this is where we start.
Maybe intimacy feels distant.
Maybe your desire isn’t as clear as it used to be.
Or maybe you’re realizing you’ve been going through the motions for a while.
I work with people who are ready to understand what’s going on beneath the surface and reconnect with their desire, their voice, and their sense of self.
This work is grounded, practical, and rooted in real change, not performance or pressure.
You find it hard to ask for what you want or even know how to start
You don’t feel like yourself anymore, but you can’t quite explain why
I’m here to help you…
Get clear on what you actually want next, so you can move forward with more direction and confidence
Find your voice and learn how to express what you want in a way that feels natural and grounded
Reconnect with yourself so you feel more at ease, more confident, and more like you again
Does any of this feels familiar…
You’re in a transition and not sure what you actually want next
Hey, I’m Tyler, and I’m a sex, intimacy, and relationship coach.
I work with people who feel like something is off in their connection to themselves, their desire, or what they actually want.
I support those who want to feel more confident in their body, more honest in how they express themselves, and more aligned with who they are.
If that sounds like you, you’re in the right place.
Let me guess, you’ve tried….
Ignoring what feels off and hoping it would sort itself out
Avoiding the conversation altogether because it just feels too awkward
Reading, listening, or trying to figure it out on your own, but still feeling stuck in your head
… And none of that has worked
You can stay where things are familiar, even if they’re not fully working.
Where everything looks fine on the surface, but something underneath still feels off.
Or you can choose to do something different.
To understand what’s actually going on, reconnect with yourself, and start experiencing intimacy in a way that actually feels like you again.
If nothing changes… nothing changes.
From the outside, everything looks fine. You go through the motions, keep up appearances, maybe even laugh now and then.
But underneath it, something feels off. Connection feels distant, and you’re starting to wonder how long you can keep telling yourself this is enough.
This is for those who are ready to move beyond thinking about intimacy and start experiencing and feeling something different. Through somatic work, psychological insight, and an exploration of desire, we’ll reconnect you with yourself in a way that feels honest, grounded, and fully your own.
If you feel a pull toward exploring new parts of your desire, including kink, that’s something we can move toward together, at your pace, and with clarity and care.
FAQs
Hiring a sex and intimacy coach sounds like a big investment. Is it worth it?
I understand that it can feel like a big step.
Most people I work with have already spent a lot of time trying to figure things out on their own. This is an investment in understanding yourself more clearly and creating real change, rather than staying stuck in the same patterns.
My life is already busy. Why should I make time for this?
You don’t need hours every week to see a shift. Even small, intentional changes can create meaningful movement.
Most clients find that a single session can bring more clarity and direction than months of trying to work through it alone.
I’ve tried therapy before. How is this different?
While my background in psychology gives us depth, this work isn’t just about analysis.
We combine conversation with embodied awareness, so you don’t just understand what’s going on, you begin to feel and experience the shift in a more immediate way.
What if I’m figuring this out on my own?
That’s completely okay.
Many people start this work individually. As you reconnect with yourself, your clarity, communication, and confidence naturally begin to shift how you show up in connection with others.
What if I feel shame around this?
Then you’re in the right place.
We don’t push it away. We work with it gently, so you can move through it with more understanding, confidence, and self-trust. Shame tends to lose its grip when it’s met with safety.