Working with Tyler Mallett,

Sex & Intimacy Coach for Couples + Individuals

Does your relationship need an Intimacy Reboot?

Remember when intimacy felt exciting instead of awkward?

I work with individuals and couples who are done feeling disconnected, crave more spark, and are ready to feel more erotic, without the shame, pressure, or performance.

With a psych degree, somatic training, and kink-informed insight, I offer coaching that’s as grounded as it is hot, and real change often starts within 1–3 months.

You lack the confidence in your sexual being

You’re interested in getting in touch with fantasies such as BDSM or others

I’m here to help you…

Create a shared understanding of your erotic rhythms and desires. Instead of tension, there’s curiosity, creativity, and a sense of collaboration. Each partner feels respected, seen, and more intimately connected, even if their needs differ.

Gain the confidence to move through the world with an embodied sense of desire and self-worth. You feel sexy, empowered, and comfortable initiating or receiving pleasure without shame.

Embrace your fantasies in a way that feels safe, thrilling, and deeply affirming, with clear boundaries, open communication, and the confidence to explore pleasure on your own terms.

Tell me if this is you…

You or your partner has a higher or lower libido. With your desire discrepancy, you aren’t sure how to bridge the gap

Hey, I’m Tyler, and I’m a sex, intimacy, and relationship coach.

I help those who feel out of sync with their partner’s desire & unsure how to bridge the gap without guilt or frustration.

I work with those who feel the pull toward fantasies, maybe kink, BDSM, or something they haven’t even named yet, but don’t know how to explore it safely or confidently.

And I support anyone who’s lost touch with their sexual confidence, who wants to feel sexy, empowered, and at home in their body again.

If that sounds like you, you’re in the right place.

Let me guess, you’ve tried….

Ignoring the disconnection and hoping it would fix itself

Avoiding the conversation altogether because it just feels too awkward

Reading all the books but still feeling stuck in your head

… And none of that has worked

You can choose comfort and stay in the familiar, even if it’s not fulfilling.  Where things look fine on the outside, but inside you’re craving more closeness, more confidence, more turn-on.

Or you can choose change, and finally feel what it’s like to be seen, supported, and sexually alive again.  Where we explore what's really going on (gently), get you out of your head and into your body, and build intimacy that actually feels good again.

If nothing changes… nothing changes.

From the outside, everything looks fine.  You go through the motions, keep up appearances, maybe even laugh now and then.

But inside, you feel disconnected, touch feels distant, and you’re starting to wonder how long you can keep pretending this is enough.

This is my signature coaching program for those ready to stop talking about intimacy and start feeling it again. Through a mix of somatic work, psychological insight, and erotic exploration, including kink if you’re curious, we’ll help you build a relationship with yourself and others that’s honest, turned-on, and deeply real.

FAQs

Hiring a sex and intimacy coach sounds expensive. Is this something we need to invest in as a couple?

You know what’s more expensive than coaching? A disconnected life. Missed intimacy, growing resentment, and, if things don’t shift, potentially a costly divorce. This is an investment in your relationship before it becomes a crisis.

My life is so busy with obligations. Why should I make time for this on top of everything else?

You don’t need hours a week to see a difference, just small, intentional shifts. Most clients find that even one powerful session a month opens up more ease, more clarity, and more connection than months of doing it alone.

I’ve tried therapy before. Isn’t this going to be the same?

Not quite. While my background in psychology gives us depth, this isn’t about endless analysis. We combine talk and embodiment, so you don’t just understand what’s going on, you actually feel the shift in your body and relationships.

What if my partner isn’t into this?

You don’t both have to start at the same time. Many clients begin individually, and that one shift often creates the ripple effect that changes the entire dynamic. Your growth can lead, lovingly.

What if I feel shame around this stuff?

Then you’re in the right place. We don’t push it away, we gently explore it, so you can move through it with more compassion, confidence, and clarity. Shame loses its power when it's held with safety.